Monday, June 22, 2015

STORIES: OURS, JESUS’ AND THE UNIVERSE’S


The third week of the 29th Sumedha Sadhana was devoted to the module "Stories: Ours, Jesus; and the Universe's"

This module was facilitated by Br. Gerard Alvarez.


Gerard Alvarez is a member of the Congregation of Christian Brothers. He has several years’ experience as a Formator, Teacher of Catechetics, Facilitator and Animator of Process in Spirituality, and in Province and Congregation Leadership.


This module offered a Spirituality of the Word for our times with symbols and rituals that breathe new life. It offered an approach to integrate spirituality and sexuality through the power of the Word, especially as found in the Gospel of Mark.

The module was very much appreciated by the participants. What they found most useful was a new appreciation for the Gospel, especially of Mark, and a new and meaningful way of reading and understanding the Gospels. Such a reading provided them hitherto unknown perspectives on the person of Jesus of Nazareth.


The module also helped participants to have better understanding of themselves and of the Universe and their place and role in it.

This module will be offered again during the next Sumedha Sadhana – October 2- December 3, 2015.


WELCOME TO NEW STAFF MEMBERS AT SUMEDHA CENTRE

Two more Salesian priests have joined the Sumedha Centre Staff.

Fr. Johny Dominic Padinjar has joined Sumedha Centre as Assistant Director and In-Charge of Research and Development.


Fr. Padinjar returned recently from the US where he obtained a Masters in Pastoral Counseling from Fordham University and a PhD Counselling Studies from the Capella University. He has also trained in psychotherapy from the National institute of Psychotherapies.

Prior to this Fr. Padinjar had been Headmaster at Catholic Ashram School at Jokbahla, Chattisgarh and Director of Don Bosco Youth and Educational Services at Bariatu (Ranchi), Jharkhand.


Fr. Anand Prakash Tirkey is the new Bursar/Administrator. He is taking the place of Fr. George Malayil who has been transferred to Don Bosco, Najafgarh, New Delhi. Fr. Tirkey has earlier served as Headmaster of Catholic Ashram School in Jokbahla, Chattisgarh and Administrator at Don Bsoc Ashalayam, Palam Gaon, New Delhi

Sumedha Centre organized a welcome function for both of them on Wednesday 17th June.

Sumedhans wish both Fr. Padinjar and Fr. Tirkey a very happy stay and very fruitful and satisfying time at Sumedha Centre.


Tuesday, June 16, 2015

FAREWELL TO FR GEORGE MALAYIL

Sumedha Centre bid farewell to Fr. George Malayil on Monday 15th June.


Fr. Malayil was the Bursar at Sumedha Centre for the last three years. During his time he endeared himself to the participants of the Sumedha programmes, group after group, through his compassion, sensitivity, availability and helpfulness.


He also showed great enthusiasm for pastoral ministry. He was ever willing to help with various ministries at the parish church next door.

He also endeared himself to the neighbours through his compassionate presence among them and his helpfulness.

The Sumedhans organised  farewell party for Fr. Malayil on Saturday 13th at which he regaled them with his many jokes, something that he does at every festive gatherings.

On 15th morning Fr. Malayil presided at the farewell Eucharist solemnized by the Sumedhans.


Fr. Malyil is taking up his new assignment as Administrator at Don Bosco, Najafgarh, Delhi.

Sumedha Centre will miss Fr. Malayil and wishes him all the best.


Wednesday, June 10, 2015

MALE PSYCHE, MASCULINE SPIRITUALITY

Sumedha Centre is introducing a brand new programme exclusively for men under the title: "Male Psyche, Masculine Spirituality."

It will be held from 13 to 22 August this year and will be facilitated by Jose Parappully and Gerard Alvarez.

Programme Description: Men have a distinctive way of seeing themselves and relating to persons and the world around based on the way the male psyche has evolved. This has an impact on their spirituality as well.

In this module we shall explore the uniquely male personality features and their development and impact using various developmental theories, myths and metaphors, following especially the Hero’s Journey. Masculine spirituality will be explored through the lens of Mark’s Gospel.




Thursday, June 4, 2015

29th SUMEDHA SADHANA BEGINS

The 29th Sumedha Sadhana (Psychospiritual Wholeness Journey) commenced on June 1. This 9-week programme will continue till August 2.

There are 16 participants from four countries, including for the first time from Myanmar and South Africa.


Sumedha Sadhana is a programme of inner journeying together with fellow seekers in quest of greater healing and wholeness, so that one can live one’s life in more fulfilling and satisfying ways

In the foundational module Psychological Dynamics on the Spiritual Journey participants are helped to relive and reframe their early childhood developmental experiences and to explore and understand the psychological dynamics of midlife and plan to make the shifts necessary to live their post-midlife psychospiritual journey in more meaningful and fulfilling ways.  Jose Parappully facilitates this module.


In Stories: Ours, Jesus’ and the Universe’s Gerard Alvarez offers a Spirituality of the Word for our times with symbols and rituals that breathe new life.

Johny Dominic helps participants explore and understand the Unconscious Dynamics that drive their behaviour, relationships and ministry and to integrate these into their conscious personality.


During this year of Consecrated Life Varghese Kalluvachel helps participants to better understand the theology of religious life and live it more meaningfully and with greater authenticity

Jose Parappully helps participants to explore and understand human sexuality and affectivity and to integrate them in their celibate lifestyle. He also explores the prevalence and effects of Sexual Abuse and suggests healing remedies.


Participants are provided opportunity for further healing and transformation through Group Therapy. They are helped to face their brokenness and fears, their unhealthy defences and unhelpful patterns of living and relating, and to move toward greater healing and wholeness. Jose Parappully and Maria Goretti Kanakarathinam facilitate this process.

Sumedha Sadhana concludes with a Spiritual Retreat in which participants are able to bring together and integrate all their r experiences up to then in prayer and reflection around the Word of God. Jose Parappully facilitates this process.


Sumedha Sadhana provides theoretical input as well as opportunities to reflect on one’s experiences and to share them with one another and for personal and common prayer. It is hoped that through this four-fold dynamics of Input, Introspection, Interaction, and Intercession participants gain a deeper feel for the psychological dynamics operating on their spiritual journey and integrate these to develop a healthier self so that they can experience greater serenity, wholeness and fruitfulness as they continue their psychospiritual journey.



The next Sumedha Sadhana (SS-30) is from October 2 to December 3, 2015. Registration is open. Contact: sumedhacentre@gmail.com


Friday, May 29, 2015

PSYCHOLOGICAL HELP FOR EARTHQUAKE SURVIVORS IN NEPAL – Jose Parappully PhD

A major earthquake of 7.8 magnitude on the Richter’s Scale devastated parts of Nepal on 25th April 2015 and led to the death of nearly 10, 000 persons. 

Another major earthquake of 7.3 magnitude two weeks later on 12th May caused further destruction and loss of lives and added to the feelings of horror and helplessness. 

In between these two major earthquakes the earth continued to shake from time to time prolonging the fear and dread.

The Catholic Health Association of India (CHAI) sent in groups of volunteers to offer material and medical help to those affected soon after the first quake.

On request from St. Xavier’s college and schools in Kathmandu CHAI also organized Workshops to offer psychological relief for trauma. Since I had some expertise in working with trauma survivors I was invited to facilitate these workshops.


I reached Kathmandu on the 23rd morning. I noticed that the city had been spared from destruction. I did not see any collapsed buildings in the city. However, some people were still sleeping in tents outside at night, fearful of houses collapsing.

I was told some villages had suffered 100% destruction of buildings. There was dire need for food, shelter and medicines. Many NGOs, including the Nepal Don Bosco Society, were involved in relief work.

The first psychological trauma workshop was held at St. Xavier’s school, Jawalakhel, Kathmandu, on 23-24 May. There were about 170 teachers from St. Xavier’s, St. Mary’s and another school. 

Only one of the buildings at St. Xavier’s had been damaged and required retrofitting. But fear was among the teachers and some of them had requested the sessions be held in the open! However, we had the sessions in the Hall which was very sturdy and declared fit by the government agencies.


The second Workshop was held at St. Xavier’s school, Godavari, Kathmandu on 25th May. There were about 60 teachers from three different schools. St. Xavier’s Godavari is set in very beautiful surroundings. One of the buildings there was the summer palace of a former King. 

Seven buildings on the site including the former palace suffered enormous damage and are declared unusable.


The last Workshop was held at St. Xavier’s College, Maitrighar, Khathmandu on 26-27 May. There were some 150 teachers from the college and from two schools.

The purpose of the trauma Workshops was first to help the teachers to understand and recover from their own trauma and secondly to help them learn ways they could assist the students.


Many of the participants themselves were highly traumatized. Even though they had survived the earthquake, they were suffering especially from the terror of their vulnerability, the dread of imminent death they experienced while they were within the buildings that were swaying massively, accompanied by dreadful noise of crushing debris and falling trees. 


Even a month after the earthquake some of them were sleeping outside in the open although their houses were not damaged.

Traumatic consequences for them included especially intrusive re-experiencing of the trauma, with accompanying hyper-arousal, the body ever alert to possible threat, as well as sense of loss and grief.


They were also anxious how they would deal with their students who were traumatized. Most of the students were from the villages that had experienced massive destruction. They would also be suffering from psychological trauma.

In this context the content of the Workshops focused on the following: Some observations on trauma and its manifestations and some helpful interventions to recover from the trauma.


The method followed in the Workshop was experiential. After the explanations and the demonstration of interventions, participants had the opportunity to apply the interventions to themselves and experience their efficacy. They could later use them with their students and others in need of psychological help.

Participants were also provided Handouts that described psychological trauma, its effects and some simple yet effective interventions that could be used to recover from trauma.


Most of the interventions used were bio-energetic (body based methods) which could help survivors to bring down their hyper-arousal levels and find relief from stress and pent up emotions.


Participants found the Workshops personally and professionally helpful. They were able to understand their own experiences and find relief for personal distress. They felt less anxious and more confident of facing their students and offering them psychological help when the schools and colleges reopen on May 31st.


There were two positive effects of the earthquake that many of the participants reported. They were immensely grateful that they survived and gained a greater appreciation for the preciousness and fragility of life. 

Secondly, the earthquake and its aftermath brought a greater sense of solidarity and fraternity among the people. I was told that neighbours who were not even talking to one another were now helping one another and reaching out together to help the more needy survivors. There is a strong desire among them to make their contribution toward rebuilding the nation after the devastation.


Friday, April 3, 2015

GOOD FRIDAY WAY OF THE CROSS AT SUMEDHA

Participants of the ongoing Sumedha Sadhana (10 women and 8 men) made their Way of the Cross at sunrise this Good Friday.


The Way of the Cross, based on Sacred Scripture, was written by Jose Parappully.


Participants took turns to carry a rather heavy Cross up the Sumedha Hill and lead the meditations at the different stations.